This may sound silly, but I've decided that one way to see if your priorities have changed is to see what you wish for has changed when the lucky moment comes around...
or wishing on an eyelash
blowing out the candles on a birthday cake
wishing on a star
tossing a penny into a fountain
puffing the petals off a dandelion
I know that right now what I've wished for has changed. I don't wish for a boyfriend anymore, I wish for other things that have started to mean more to me at the moment.
I think that's a good sign.